 | The Hijab Diaries
Supportive and Motivational Group for ALL Types of Women, Hijabi or Not, Striving to Use Islamic Knowledge to Better Ourselves, Empower Each Other, and Revive Our Muslim Community at Large
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| |  | I WOULD LIKE TO EMPHASIZE THAT THIS FORUM IS NOT EXCLUSIVELY FOR HIJAB-WEARING MUSLIM SISTERS!
-We are trying to bring together seekers of knowledge
-Discuss topics that bother us or need clarification, working together to find solutions
-Build a network so we can come to each other for advice, ideas, and motivation.
-I urge you to respect each other in the way that we would like to be respected (i.e. the way Allah SWT ordained for us) May Allah SWT bless us with the motivation to be there for each other and help each other through hardship.
| 2 | 2 | Tue Aug 18, 2009 7:41 pm
admin | | -Most women have similar problems, so this interface is to be open to women of all types of issues, even if they do not actively practice Islam.
-InshaAllah, we will realize that we ALL have more in common than we think.
-Also, I would also like to remind you all that non-Muslims as well as Muslims of different ethnicities, cultures, and sects, will be visiting this forum. So be mindful of whatever you say, remember to think of others before you post something that might sound judgmental or offensive. Many different cultures practice certain parts of our religion differently, so try to be open-minded, and PLEASE do not accuse anyone of being wrong. Even if you think they are, remember that the Prophet SAW was never rude in his dealings with anyone.
-Talk to your Muslim sisters in the way that you would like to be talked to. If there is an issue between you and anyone else, we will try to discuss it in a graceful manner, and try to solve it by talking to someone with authority or knowledge.
-If anyone talks to you in an offensive manner, please notify us (contact the admin) before you say something equally offensive in response, and we will deal with the situation accordingly. JazakAllah Khair :)
| 0 | 0 | | | -First, sign up! Above, there's a tab to "Register."
-Create a username and password etc, and then you're set to start chatting away.
-Rolling your mouse over "Salaam!" allows you to see our aim. Clicking on the Forums below it, such as "Guidelines," "Storytime," or "Marriage is Half of the Quran!" allows you to open up that forum
-Respond to a topic under it, such as "Hardship," "Enlightenment," or "Let's Talk About Equality," by clicking on "NEW POST" on top of the box. You can either create a new post, or reply to an existing post.
-Since you created a username, you can also edit your profile (the tab should be next to "Log Out," where "Register" used to be). There, you can edit your preferences, and personalize your profile.
| 0 | 0 | | | Why hello there, beauty!!
-To start with, I'd like to clarify- there is no need to give out your real name or anything of that sort. Especially if you're going to be talking about personal stuff on here, I would advise you to keep your name and info anonymous, or make it up.
-If you would like to be more personal with someone and tell them your real info, please do it through Private Messages (PM) or tell each other your emails and communicate through that.
-However, under this heading of "Introduce Yourself," please feel free to start some conversations going about yourselves, what kind of life you live, what kinds of goals you want to accomplish (either in general or pertaining to this website), what your dreams are for yourself, your family, and your community, etc.
-Tell us if you're in need of some company, or you're just trying to extend your network. Let us know what you need, and we'll try to provide it, inshaAllah :)
| 2 | 2 | Sat Aug 22, 2009 11:17 pm
crazymon | | |  | Everyone has their own personal stories that they love to share, whether it's about conversion, enlightenment, hardship, historically relevant information, etc.
-We learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes and feel each other's pain when we actively listen to another person's story and really understand what they're going through, and give our feedback.
-It's a way to make someone that's shy or hard to get through to- into someone that is willing to finally let the floodgates open of things that they've been wanting to talk about but were either too nervous, or too scared.
-Most people are lacking understanding people in their lives, and they just need someone that will take the first step towards them to say, "I'm here to listen, regardless of what you want to talk about, how bad it is, or how boring it is."
| 2 | 5 | Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:09 pm
AfricanScarf |  | | Did you, a family member, or a friend have any particularly difficult time in regards to an Islamic issue that you would like to spread awareness about? Don't hesitate to tell us about it.
There may be a girl out there that needs to feel like there's someone out there that feels her pain and knows exactly what she's going through.
-What particular instances did you feel like obstacles were put in front of you, and how did you prevail?
| 1 | 1 | Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:09 pm
AfricanScarf | | | What brought you back to Islam?
What floors you when thinking about Islam and its beauty?
What scares you when thinking about the consequences of your actions?
| 0 | 0 | | | | We all know it's a life-changing experience when your eyes get opened to the beauty of Islam.
-We want to hear your story, because it gives us hope in when the world might look bleak to us.
-What or who helped you along in this process of converting?
-What attracts you most to Islam?
-On the other hand, do you see inconsistencies within the current Muslim community- in their words compared to their actions?
-This section is also available to those of you who are interested in converting, and would like to ask specific questions. Please post up anything that you would like more information about, and inshaAllah we will try our best to find your answers, if we don't know them already :)
| 0 | 0 | | | I'm going to tentatively reserve this section for anyone that wants to either talk about a specific problem in our Ummah, a personal problem, or a section in which you can voice the fact that you need to meet with someone in person. We will figure something out and try to help you out to the best of our abilities inshaAllah :)
| 2 | 7 | Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:12 pm
AfricanScarf | | | -Are you feeling hopeless, and is it because of a certain reason or certain circumstances?
-Are you bogged down with too many problems, and don't see an end in sight? Hope is always right in front of you- we believe it just depends on your perception of things.
| 1 | 2 | Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:12 pm
AfricanScarf | | | -Are certain things, cirucumstances, or people in your life causing you to lose faith?
-Need a spiritual revival? You're not alone- many people have gone through this state, even if they were raised based on Islamic teachings.
-Be patient and PRAY!
| 1 | 5 | Tue Jul 28, 2009 2:21 am
admin | | | -What kinds of limitations have been forced on you, which make you think twice about the fact if these are actually Islamically-based restrictions?
-For example, lets address education: how is it viewed in your culture, or among your family?
-Are you not allowed to pursue an education because your culture is very conservative?
-Did someone tell you that your role as a Muslim woman should only be fulfilled by staying at home and cleaning?
-Another frequent issue among our community is the idea of culture influencing marriage ties. Is your family not allowing you to marry outside of your culture? Post your experiences with these issues here, and let's talk about certain obstacles that we can overcome by dialog, giving advice, and motivation inshaAllah.
| 0 | 0 | | | | -Don't understand your kids, or do they not understand you??
-Are they not practicing Islam, or are they getting involved in western habits?
Maybe one of our members with some experience will give you some advice that you can use inshaAllah
| 0 | 0 | | | | -Many of us have experienced or know people that are going through similar problems.
-You're not alone.. and Allah SWT is always listening to your du'as. Never stop asking Him for help!
| 0 | 0 | | | | -Death is one of the hardest subjects to discuss, and one of the hardest parts of life to deal with.
-Tell us who you lost, and what you miss about them.
-Tell us why you fear death or losing someone close to you.
-Remember though, it's a part of everyone's life. Afterwards, we're going to be embarking on a journey that is eternal, compared to this fleeting life that we're living right now. This life is just a test, and your purpose is of something greater than the physical relationships we have in this life.. the key is to try to emphasize goodness in the content of your relationships so you pass your tests with flying colors, and get rewarded with a prize beyond your wildest dreams- Eternal Paradise.
| 0 | 0 | | | -Having problems with a specific person in your life?
-Regardless if it's a mother-in-law, brother, significant other, best friend, or a person that just won't leave you alone.. We'll try to give you advice, while trying to stay within the limits of our religion inshaAllah :)
| 0 | 0 | | | | | Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "When the month of Ramadan starts, the gates of the heaven are opened and the gates of Hell are closed and the devils are chained."
| 6 | 6 | Sun Aug 23, 2009 10:29 pm
mashala | | And We have not sent you [O Muhammad] except as a mercy to the worlds. (21:107)
-This section is a tribute to the last Prophet, Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), who we pay homage to by following his example as explicitly as possible.
-Here, you can either post notes from a class that you have taken on his life and struggle to establish the most groundbreaking religion of all time, or your own thoughts and advice on how to live our lives as he, peace and blessings be upon him, the most perfect human of all time, did.
| 0 | 0 | | | Gender equality, racial equality, human equality.
-What teachings of the Quran and Sunnah do you find relevant to this topic, and how can we apply these to our own lives and society in general?
-What problems do you see around you, or which kinds of situations have you been put in, in which equality was severely compromised, and you knew that Islam's teachings would and should prevail in the given situation?
| 0 | 0 | | | To be expanded on soon, inshaAllah..
| 3 | 6 | Wed Aug 12, 2009 6:54 am
mashala | | | to be expanded upon soon, inshaAllah..
| 1 | 3 | Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:27 am
admin | | | to be expanded upon soon, inshaAllah..
| 2 | 3 | Wed Aug 12, 2009 6:54 am
mashala | | To be expanded upon soon, inshaAllah..
| 1 | 1 | Sat Jul 25, 2009 12:49 pm
admin | | -Is there a teaching of the Prophet SAW that really appeals to you?
Is there an ayat in the Quran that really tugs at your heart?
-Please tell us why it's so pertinent to you :)
| 0 | 0 | | | | | -A halaqah is a meeting that we set up and discuss certain Islamic topics or issues.
-Some example topics of halaqahs tare: Loving the Prophet SAW, Fundamentals of Faith, Allah SWT's Mercy, Aspects of Heaven, Importance of Knowledge, Importance of Intention, etc.
-THIS IS CRUCIAL! Not only will we establish a support system for each other, but we will get rewarded for talking about furthering our knowledge about Allah SWT's words, and will eventually motivate each other to do good for ourselves, other people, and the community inshaAllah.
-We will be doing something Allah SWT loves, instead of wasting time not thinking about Him and furthering His message.
-This online forum is the tool that we can use to talk with people that don't have the time, energy, or resources to go out of the house to discuss these things amongst ourselves.
-However, for those of us that can get together, we should! In this section, I would like us to discuss, respective of where we live, about where we can meet and talk to each other about important Islamic topics.
| 2 | 5 | Fri Jul 24, 2009 10:22 pm
admin | | Have an idea to volunteer somewhere? Know anyone that needs help? Post it here, and inshaAllah you'll get a response for people to join in to help!
| 1 | 1 | Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:25 pm
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